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A proper about me post…
Monday, January 2nd, 2017 11:20 pmThe purpose of this is to eliminate confusion and questions. Enjoy! :)
Revised 6-21-2025
Name: Cassie or Cass
Birthdate: June 2nd, 1990 (currently 35)
Location: I'm based in southeastern Ohio, about an hour east of Columbus. I first moved into my own apartment in the spring of 2022, having only previously lived alone during the 2011–2012 school year in a college dorm. In late summer 2023, financial difficulties forced me to move back in with my mother. I secured my second solo apartment in May 2024, but due to interference from my controlling mother, my move was delayed until the end of October. In March 2025, I relocated once more—this time to an income-based apartment.Occupation: Currently unemployed. I was let go from my position as a preschool teacher in May 2025 due to circumstances beyond my control.
Sexual Orientation & Love Life: I identify as a fluid lesbian. I grew up in a religious and sexually uninformed household, and it wasn’t until I was a 21-year-old college freshman that I had my realization—thanks in large part to the show Glee, which helped open my eyes. My sexuality is complex and multi-layered, but at the heart of it, I’m simply trying to find my life partner, regardless of gender identity.
My mother comes from a time when homosexuality was considered both a crime and a mental illness, and she remains a devout Christian. Because of this, I stayed closeted from her—and by extension, from much of my family—for a long time. I came out to her in December 2023. We still haven’t talked about it.
In early 2017, I was in a long-distance relationship with a woman, “M,” who was abusive and severely mentally unwell. Then from January to October 2021, I was involved with a man I now refer to as “The Ex” (his real name is Clint—you’ll see his name in my tags). He was highly manipulative, possessive, and borderline abusive. He was also my first long-term boyfriend and the first person I was sexually involved with. I’m still working every day to heal from the damage those relationships caused and to rebuild my sense of trust and self-worth.
My first official girlfriend, Megan, and I had made plans to move in together and eventually get married. But in early 2024, she ended things suddenly, telling me she didn’t love me anymore. Her words crushed me. That heartbreak set me back deeply, and it took over a year and a half before I felt ready to even consider dating again.
Health: My health journey has had its ups and downs, both mentally and physically. I’ve lived with depression and anxiety since I was 12. At 26, my anxiety severely spiked and forced me to face it head-on. In 2019, during a depressive episode, I was diagnosed with bipolar disorder. I have a mild form of it, and with medication and therapy, my symptoms are generally well-managed—my current diagnosis status is considered “in remission.” I've been in therapy since I was 22 and have been on medication since age 23.
However, in 2024, I went through another depressive episode that required an adjustment to my medication. I’m doing better now, but the experience was humbling—it reminded me that my bipolar disorder is still very much present, even when things seem stable.
In 2022, I was also diagnosed with ADHD, and I’m still learning how to navigate life with it. That same year, I was officially diagnosed with PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome) and began hormonal birth control to manage symptoms. Unfortunately, this has contributed to significant weight gain, putting me in the obesity range. I'm actively working on losing weight naturally and establishing a consistent workout routine, and I’m considering weight loss surgery as a future option if needed.
In December 2021, I contracted a severe case of COVID-19. I was unvaccinated at the time and very sick for about three weeks. Not long after, in early 2022, I began experiencing heart-related symptoms. Though initially dismissed as anxiety, I continued advocating for myself and, after a referral to a cardiologist and a Tilt Table Test, I was diagnosed with POTS (Postural Orthostatic Tachycardia Syndrome) in the spring of 2024. It’s a non-fatal but chronic neurological condition affecting heart rate and blood flow. I'm currently managing it through lifestyle changes.
Also in spring 2024, I was diagnosed with Obstructive Sleep Apnea (OSA) and now use a BiPAP machine to support better sleep and health.
As I continue therapy, I’ve begun to suspect I may also have OCD and be on the autism spectrum—both of which I’m currently exploring and working through in a therapeutic setting.
When I speak about God or the Universe, it’s usually to seek understanding or to offer gratitude. Lately, I’ve found myself drawn to Wicca and the possibility of blending it with my Christian roots to create a hybrid practice that feels authentic to me. I occasionally read Tarot cards, work with crystals, practice kitchen table magic, meditate, and use manifestation techniques.
I wear a necklace adorned with several protective spiritual symbols—a silver cross, a Virgin Mary medallion, and a Celtic Wiccan Knot of protection. I never take it off, as it brings me a deep sense of comfort and strength.
Fandoms: I’m not deeply involved in any fandoms, but I dabble casually in a few favorites. Some of the ones I keep up with—more on a casual, “just-for-fun” basis—include the MCU, Florence Pugh, Lady Gaga, Victorious, Liz Gillies, Sabrina Carpenter*, Ariana Grande, Supernatural, The Golden Girls, Girl Meets World, Taylor Swift, Reneé Rapp, Chappell Roan, the Jonas Brothers, and more. These are the ones I check in on regularly but lightly.
I watch a lot of TV and movies, so I’ll mention other favorites from time to time. Fandom doesn’t hold the same intense appeal for me as it once did, so I usually stay on the sidelines unless I’m trying to connect with others to chat about a particular fandom—but even then, I’m mostly a casual observer. Lately, I’ve been getting more into reading, so I expect you’ll hear me talk about that more, too.
*My Angel and my Comfort Person. <3
Recurring Characters:Mom: We have a complicated relationship. She has spent much of my life emotionally abusing and manipulating me. I am actively working to move out from under her control.
Cats: Maddie (13), Buddy (13), and Sophie (5) are my three rescue babies, loved and spoiled endlessly. My mom also has two rescued cats, Holly (9) and Josie (3). All our cats are rescues. <3
Siblings:
I am the youngest of six*—five older half-siblings in total. My mom had two sons, and my father had three children (two daughters and one son) before I was born. My parents divorced when I was five months old, and my father chose not to be involved in my life. That was never an issue for me—he was a horrible man, so it was definitely not a loss. Tragically, in March 2023, my older half-brother John passed away from an overdose; I never got the chance to meet him.
*In 2020, through Ancestry DNA, we discovered that my father may have had another son. The man who matched me and my eldest half-sister denied knowing our father or anyone with our last name. We respected his wishes and moved on, but DNA doesn’t lie—and his first name is the same as our father’s. It has since been confirmed that I do indeed have this additional older brother. Yeah... heh.
Craig: Eldest brother and my mom’s first child. He is married to Heather, and they are the parents of my niece Mackenzie and nephew Nathan.
Adam: Second oldest brother and my mom’s second child. He is married to Jennifer, and they have chosen to be childfree.
Counselor Raegan: My current therapist.
Kristi: We met in 2007 when I was (reluctantly) enrolled in traditional school after being homeschooled. She is my sister from another mister. We’ve known each other for nearly 20 years and have grown up together. She is one of my absolute closest friends—she’s the Sophia to my Blanche, and we’re stuck like glue.
Tidbits:
In November 2002, my grandmother passed away from cancer. In March 2013, my aunt Judy died of lymphoma
*will add more if I think of it*
